When I first saw this above and below pins (I am pinterest obsessed), I felt like they was made for me. I have always had a problem with overthinking and not following my gut, not necessarily in my personal things aka my job, fitness etc, but mostly in my relationships, both friends and with guys. I have always spent my time trying to make the other person happy and over-analyzing everything everyone says and does. In recent months, I feel like I have become conscious of this and have been able to make significant changes in my life and in turn have become so much happier. I dont need to take everything personal and I don't need to hold anything back. If you are doing something I don't like, I am going to tell you, but if you are doing something I love, I am going to tell you too. I feel like this is such a simple realization, but I feel freed. By not overthinking, I get upset or angry less often, I rarely feel lonely and everyone in my life, for the most part, knows how I feel about them and our relationship. It really puts you at peace. :)
Have a great Thursday!